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 اللي ايده في الـمَيَّه، مش زي اللي ايده في النار:

That means the one who falls into misfortunes or problems  feels bad and suffers .Not as the one who watches or hears about the problems from distance , they are in that like two people, one of them has his hand in fire ,and the other one has it in water .There are difference between the two situations .